19 Kislev 5721, Toras Menachem vol 29 page 229-237, First Sicha Class Four, Page 231-233.Lesson from Mordechai.Learn from the order, action first of all.

19 Kislev 5721, Toras Menachem vol 29 page 229-237, First Sicha Class Three, Page 230-231.The order of the support; first you GIVE, then you figure out how it can be generous and with benevolence and the end you find some favor for this person (it is all backwards, beginning with action).